Quite often I have clients come to me and say, I’m not getting the results I want, I’m doing all the things but nothing’s happening, this really boils down to three key points.

Number one, you’re not clear on what it is that you want. You are just fumbling around without any clear direction, so your results are diluted. The critical component here is being super clear on what it is you want. So, when I’m working with clients and they come to me and say, I’m doing all the things and it’s not working, I will ask them, do you know why you are doing this, are the things you are doing leading to a clear objective or are you just busy being busy? Clarity and a good plan around a defined objective is part of the problem. Getting clear is the key to obtaining the results you desire, when you know where you are going then it’s easy to do the doing part to get there, the picture is crystal clear.

Number two, I ask my clients do you really want this? Is this really what you want? Is this what you want to be doing? Or are you just doing the doing? Because in order to get the desired outcome you want you need for your heart and soul to be in it, not just doing for the sake of doing. 

Number three, do you believe you can have it? Self-belief and belief in a desired outcome will catapult your results, it creates profound magnetism, drawing to you that which you desire. If you don’t believe in yourself and what you are working towards then you simply will not have it.

These three questions are crucial because if your heart and soul is not in it and you aren’t clear on where you are going and what you need to do the get there then momentum can’t happen, it’s an energy thing.

From an energy perspective, energy doesn’t know the universe doesn’t know how to deliver to you because you:

  1. don’t know what you want and your energy is not tapping into that frequency of getting that thing that you want. 
  2. Your doing all the things but don’t really value the outcome, it’s not your desired outcome then energetically you’re repelling it and so you’re not going to get the results because you don’t really want it.
  3. You don’t believe you can have it or deserve it.

So, if you’re not getting the results you want you need to:

  1. Get clear on what you want and your desired outcome.
  2. Make sure your heart and soul are in it.
  3. Reprogram yourself into believing you can do it wholeheartedly.

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